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Embodied with Elizabeth DiAlto

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Mar 27, 2023

There’s a lot of fresh, new beginning energy swirling around as we step into the spring equinox. Coming out of this cocoon season has opened me up to receive intentions from my ancestors and divine support squad, and I’ve been really sitting with the messages they’ve been sending me lately. 

The first is one is around the multiplicity of connection, intimacy, and creativity. Where can I find more joy in the rewards of being who I truly am, especially when there’s a hefty tax to living an alternative lifestyle? I’ve been thinking a lot about community, demonstrating ethics of care, and both knowing what’s enough and being okay with it rather than always striving for more. 

The other intention that I’ve been playing around with is inviting next-level/renewed power and strength in my physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual health. I’m experimenting with how I can set my life up to be as enjoyable and pain-free as possible, which requires me to reintegrate movement and nutrition in a new way. 

I hope these intentions can illuminate something relevant, important, or relatable for you, too!

 

In episode 420 of the Embodied Podcast we discuss:

(1:39) Reflecting on the spring equinox and Pisces season  

(6:26) One of the biggest takeaways that I got out of the Real Uplevel series 

(8:53) Discovering your contribution and doing what’s yours to do 

(14:29) Receiving the intention for multiplicity of connection, intimacy, and creativity

(18:41) Taking an honest audit of my habits of consumption and accumulation

(21:37) Next level/renewed power and strength (physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual) 

(25:02) Insights from a recent cleanse that I did 

(30:42) Recognizing that alignment requires effort 

(35:26) Connecting to the real power of your soul 

 

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Mar 20, 2023

Grief and sadness are important emotions to be honest about, pay attention to, and process as they come up. Today I’m sharing some things that make me sad and that I tend to be grieving on a pretty regular basis. As a person who embodies a lot of joy, passion, fire, and humor, I don't know if people realize that I grieve all the time. And I bet some of you can relate to this ー much of what makes me sad or has me grieve comes from systemic oppression and the myriad of delusions humans live under that cause us to do harm to ourselves and each other. 

In this episode, I share two recent experiences that reminded me of how these systems can show up in our daily lives, sometimes in really sneaky ways that are hard to detect. When we start to peel back all the layers that we've acquired since coming into these bodies, we can remember that we are so much more than our parts.  

 

In episode 419 of the Embodied Podcast we discuss:

(1:21) Grieving over the systemic oppression that causes us to do harm to ourselves and each other

(2:46) How I reframe emotions like sadness, grief, and anger

(4:48) Recognizing why so many of us struggle with self-love and self-respect 

(9:30) My eye-opening experience at a breast reduction consultation 

(13:55) Honoring the unlearning, unpacking, and deconstructing of liberation work 

(15:30) The truth about everyone’s purpose 

(18:11) Why you can’t rush the healing timeline 

 

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Mar 13, 2023

When you proclaim something and put some intention on it, life tends to put it in your path to ask you if you’re really sure. In this episode, I unpack a couple of things related to healing and my words for this year that have been coming up for me lately. 

Join me as I explore popular online messaging around nervous system regulation and finding what resonates with my wild soul. I also touch on the divine timing of some scrubby and bothering behavior that I’ve been inundated with and what that means for my words of the year. 

In episode 418 of the Embodied Podcast we discuss:

(1:22) What The REAL Uplevel Interview Series is all about 

(3:19) Healing in the age of social media  

(6:05) Why it’s unrealistic to strive for a perfectly regulated nervous system all the time 

(8:51) Cultivating a flexible, resilient, and adaptable nervous system

(12:35) The two reasons why I’m releasing the word ‘unbothered’ as one of my words for the year

(17:27) What I’m realizing about my boundary with #NoScrubs 

 

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Feb 27, 2023

In the Wild Soul Sacred Body Membership, I host monthly community Q&A calls to go deeper on themes of self love, healing, wholeness, and liberation. To give you an idea of what it’s like to be on those calls, I asked for questions on Instagram and pulled out the top three submissions: 

  1. How can I navigate injury, illness, chronic pain, or the changes in my body as I age?

  2. How can I heal from my anxious attachment style?

  3. How can I start feeling my feelings when I’ve avoided doing so for a long time? 

As I work through these topics, I Iook back on a range of personal and professional experiences and offer up resources that my clients and students find to be useful. I also share what you can expect from the membership, including access to workshops and meditations that explore each of these questions in a richer, more nuanced way.   

In episode 417 of the Embodied Podcast we discuss:

(5:06) My life as a relatively able-bodied person who has dealt with invisible injuries 

(6:51) Why inclusivity around the topic of bodies and illnesses is so important to me

(10:31) Discovering invitations for deeper liberation, embodiment, acceptance, and self love 

(13:23) Approaching your body from a place of acceptance instead of resistance 

(20:05) What has helped me get to the root of my anxious responses or reactions

(24:00) Being unavailable for avoidant behavior and setting boundaries around that 

(28:20) Practices that can help get you out of your head and into your body 

(33:02) Different embodiment and movement classes we offer for Wild Soul Sacred Body members 

 

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Quotes from this Week’s Episode of the Embodied Podcast: 

  • Whether it's injury, illness, body pain, weight gain, weight loss, or various conditions and disorders, I look at all of it as invitations for deeper liberation, embodiment, acceptance, respect, and love for the self.

  • Acceptance is not approval. You can accept something and have immense compassion for it, and also want to change it.

  • As you get in your senses you can notice patterns.

  • Doing practices that don’t require you to mentally process feelings and emotions helps to resensitize you. 

  • Terri Cole has these three questions, which are: Who does this remind me of? When have I felt this way before? And why does this feel familiar? Those three questions get to the root of what's going on. 

  • I didn't deny myself a friggin’ thing because I gained weight. There are a lot of people who withhold and deny themselves things and experiences because they don't feel comfortable or confident in how they look. I refuse to do that.

 

Feb 20, 2023

I’ve been engaging in conversations around liberation in business for the REAL Uplevel Interview Series, and it’s been illuminating the consistent incongruences in the coaching, wellness, and healing industries. 

There are very real consequences when people with any kind of authority in these spaces view vast and global topics through their own micro-experiences. In this episode, I break down what some of those outcomes are, including upholding systems of supremacy and oppression and engaging in manipulative sales tactics.

Join me as I break down my creation process for this series and share what topics we’ll be exploring with my guest speakers. 

 

In episode 416 of the Embodied Podcast we discuss:

(1:33) Updates about the REAL Uplevel Interview Series: who you’ll hear from and what we discuss 

(7:29) How I plan to create the container and the agreements for this series  

(9:13) Concepts and quotes that really stood out for me from Alok Vaid-Menon's episode on The Man Enough Podcast 

(14:08) A big area that I'm learning more about right now

(19:19) Alok’s deeper perspective on self-love

(23:45) Overlapping themes I’ve noticed in my interviews for the series 

(26:32) My experience of the ‘integrity effect’ as a coach 

(30:57) What inspired me to finally create this series

(35:15) Practicing humility 

(38:54) One of the most expansive parts of the series so far 

 

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Feb 13, 2023

Since recording episode 399 where I introduced my ‘Sacred Slut Summer’ experiment, I’ve discovered that I'm loving the intimacy, connection, and companionship that's available in the solo polyamorous lifestyle. 

 

From my early 20s to early 30s, I was essentially a serial monogamist. After taking about a year and a half to deeply reconnect with myself and heal after my last long-term partnership, I realized that I love dating, but not necessarily with the intention of merging my life with someone else’s.

 

In this episode, I describe how nourishing it’s been to create what I call a “constellation of companions” and highlight what I’m currently navigating. Whether you're interested in this lifestyle or not, I hope you hear something that resonates or sparks curiosity about where you can invite more joy into your life. 

 

In episode 415 of the Embodied Podcast we discuss:

(1:55) Recapping my ‘Sacred Slut Summer’ experiment

(4:30) Getting back into dating in 2018 

(7:51) Defense mechanisms that I’m noticing on social media and IRL 

(16:13) Realizing what I actually enjoy about relationships: sex, affection, intimacy, companionship, being able to do fun things, and also having different energy in my life 

(23:13) What no one tells women in their 30s and 40s about pleasure and intimacy 

(24:54) What I'm loving about this lifestyle 

(29:26) The biggest thing that I'm still navigating

(33:23) Staying open and available for what’s out there 

(35:04) A humbling epiphany I had recently 

(37:34) What you can expect from our upcoming workshop 

 

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Feb 6, 2023

Continuing with the theme of liberatory practices, one of the most potent places to free yourself is within your relationships. When it comes to the people in your personal, familial, romantic, and professional circles, it’s important to check in with how they’re either nourishing or depleting you. 

In this episode, I’m sharing how I’ve determined which relationships are worth it for me and which ones aren't at the moment. I also touch on strategies that have been helpful for maintaining and/or deepening the connections I want to keep in my life, and explore some thoughts on letting go of ones that no longer serve me. 

 

In episode 414 of the Embodied Podcast we discuss:

(1:58) Details about my upcoming workshop, The Relationship Inventory 

(4:16) Unpacking some internet rhetoric around ghosting

(8:19) My practice for sending love to someone when I feel like I’m spending a lot of emotional energy on them

(11:46) How accepting people for who they are has softened my heart and my hard edges

(13:55) Dealing with situations where you just don't like or vibe with someone that other people that you like and respect do

(16:15) Getting clear on your negotiables and non-negotiables in a relationship 

(17:50) The groups of people that I’m no longer giving time and energy to the way that I used to, and why 

(26:24) Examples of friendships that I’ve learned to step away from 

(32:48) My experience with deepening family connections and upholding boundaries 

(34:59) Knowing and honoring the scope of my professional practice

(38:18) Discovering what you need out of your romantic relationships

 

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Jan 30, 2023

As someone who used to bottle up all of their fiery feelings and struggle with emotional intelligence, I’ve experienced first-hand how verbally processing things is an extremely liberatory practice. It helps to create better, more satisfying experiences and prevents us from having to deal with things that are actually avoidable. 

 

In this episode, I share a few stories to illuminate how, why, and where it's important to use your words to free yourself. I look at examples across a range of contexts, including dating, business, family, and community. 

 

In episode 413 of the Embodied Podcast we discuss:

(2:24) A few housekeeping items and ways to get involved with classes, workshops, and trainings 

(4:04) My communication background from a Human Design and astrology perspective 

(8:28) First things first: be honest with yourself when something is bothering you, and/or you desire collaboration 

(9:57) How I vet potential lovers and the thought-process behind each question 

(14:18) Why it’s so important to establish community agreements and guidelines in all of your spaces

(19:46) What I’m going to be exploring in my upcoming business interview series

(24:57) Why I believe the main reason for bad sex is actually bad communication 

(28:19) If you have your own examples or want to join the conversation, reach out in via DM or email

 

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Jan 23, 2023

One of the most liberating elements of my life has been working through the fears that have been conditioned into me about needing to look a certain way in order to be desired, loved, and worthy. Gaining weight and embracing the tremendous amount of wisdom in my body has transformed every aspect of my life.  

In this episode, I invite you to approach your body like it's the complex and miraculous thing it is. I unpack some of my thoughts on common body neutrality messaging, skewed beauty standards, and what I’ve learned on this journey to becoming my most joyful, voluptuous self.  

 

In episode 412 of the Embodied Podcast we discuss: 

(2:41) Recapping what liberatory practices are and how we can use them to create a more expansive year (and life) 

(5:19) Body positivity and body neutrality phrases that I deeply disagree with 

(10:19) Examining the programming that makes you resent your body, or resist closeness with it, or judge other people's bodies 

(12:43) Why we need to stop looking at exceptions and treating them like norms or ideals 

(14:52) My stance on cosmetic surgery 

(17:01) A look into my nearly decade-long experience gaining weight and dismantling my beliefs about my body  

(20:28) Getting back into dating and realizing that we're all somebody's ideal 

 

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Jan 16, 2023

To welcome in the new year, I’m covering some liberatory practices that you can incorporate into your routine life for a more expansive year. There are three words and a phrase that I’m using to guide my intentions and decisions in 2023 - unapologetic, unbothered, soft, and #ScrubFree. In this episode, I unpack what all of that means to me and how I plan on channeling that energy in all areas of my life. 

 

As always, you’re invited to take what resonates for you and ditch anything that doesn’t!

 

In episode 411 of the Embodied Podcast, we discuss:

(2:00) The interconnected nature of expansion and acceptance 

(3:47) How do we know if the work that we're doing on ourselves is really contributing to collective healing and liberation?

(6:58) Why I love the saying, “May this be for the benefit of all beings”

(12:58) Tapping into the expanded expression and embodiment of being unapologetic 

(13:36) The different layers of unbothered and how it differs from triggerable 

(16:58) Recognizing where I want to soften my edges and let go of things that aren’t mine to hold

(21:36) Applying a #ScrubFree policy to every area of my life 

(24:32) Developing genuine self-awareness, especially around how you label yourself

(27:28) What to expect from the next couple of episodes 

 

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Dec 5, 2022

To close out this season of the Embodied Podcast, I’m coming to you solo and exploring the power of feeling and dealing with your emotions. I like to think of it as going out on an emotional LIM: literacy, intelligence, and maturity. It’s so important to go back to the fundamentals and dig into what processing your feelings actually means. 

If you’re engaged with life in a growth-oriented way, this work is invaluable and timeless. Regardless of how enlightened or energetically-aligned you are, life has a way of throwing new challenges and tests at you everyday. 

Join us back here on January 16th for a new season where we’ll be diving into more healing, joy, and liberation. 

In episode 410 of the Embodied Podcast we discuss:

  • [3:39] The difference between feeling and dealing.  
  • [8:49] Practicing emotional literacy, intelligence, and maturity.  
  • [12:35] Tuning into how your signals and triggers change over time, especially as you engage in more healing work. 
  • [18:02] Why I think the feeling and dealing work is beneficial for everyone. 
  • [23:50] Quieting the inner critic to make space for more compassion and understanding. 
  • [27:13] Feeling this undercurrent of fatigue and the need for rest during this season. 

 

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Nov 28, 2022

My friend Jadah Sellner, author and business mentor, joins me on this episode to talk about the takeaways and creative process behind her latest book, She Builds: The Anti-Hustle Guide to Grow Your Business and Nourish Your Life. We discuss what it looks like to detox from hustle culture, lead with love, and embody your own definition of success. This book is a full integration of the masculine and feminine, providing both a practical and holistic point of view on how to avoid burnout and discover more flow in your life.

Jadah’s perspective on entrepreneurship and personal development is such a breath of fresh air. I can’t wait for you to hear our conversation and get your copy of She Builds!

In episode 409 of the Embodied Podcast we discuss:

  • [3:24] Setting the standard of inclusive, trauma-informed teachers and mentors.  
  • [10:00] Receiving feedback in a constructive way and working through your unconscious biases.  
  • [18:13] Jadah’s business philosophy: love over metrics.  
  • [22:46] Why is the baseline goal to be a seven-figure business owner? 
  • [25:48] What ‘anti-hustle culture’ is all about.  
  • [29:57] Embracing your pace and following the seasons of your life.  
  • [39:22] Inside-out processing vs. outsourcing your answers and decisions to other people.  
  • [46:00] What we learned in Alexandra Franzen's course: Marketing Without Social Media 
  • [51:38] Jadah’s reflections on the creative writing process. 

 

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Nov 21, 2022

In this episode, I sit down with Elisha Halpin, spiritual mentor and embodiment coach, to discuss consistency, playfulness as an adult, and nervous system healing. Elisa illustrates the beauty of a deep regulation journey and exploiting your relationship with curiosity, consistency, and choice. She also shares her interpretation of the initiation with the dark goddess and what it means to be in full flow with yourself. 

 

Elisa adds so many rich layers to the ongoing embodiment and expansion discussion that we're always having, so don’t miss this conversation! 

 

In episode 408 of the Embodied Podcast we discuss:

  • [2:44] The joy of slowing down, especially as a person who loves change and transition.   
  • [11:15] What it looks like to practice consistency in a way that honors who you are. 
  • [15:27] Learning how to incorporate more playfulness into your adult life.  
  • [20:48] The difference between the cooperative and adaptive aspects of your true personality.  
  • [24:46] Noticing when you’re in and out of alignment with your soul. 
  • [31:39] How to get into an equal exchange with others.  
  • [36:28] Why your own personal healing is essential if you want to make an impact in the world.
  • [41:47] Breaking free from somatic oppression and giving too much power to a modality.  
  • [46:21] What’s necessary for nervous system expansion and healing. 
  • [48:31] Having a healthy respect for the dark, chaotic life force. 

 

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Nov 14, 2022

Today I’m joined by Josie Pickens, organizer, educator, journalist, and culture critic, to discuss how to be a better lover to yourself, others, and explore intimacy in a more expansive way. Josie unpacks the message behind her essay “Party of One” that was featured in Sex and the Single Woman, and she describes her journey to being in a primary relationship with herself. 

We also dive into the juicy healing work that Josie has been doing and the ripple effect that it’s had on her life. We touch on our experiences with non-monogamy and polyamory, and celebrate how younger generations are reimagining what’s possible when it comes to love, dating, and relationships.  

Don’t miss this conversation with Josie where we dig into how to be more loving people in a world that tries so hard to get us to not be. 

In episode 407 of the Embodied Podcast we discuss:

  • [3:18] The healing work Josie’s currently engaging in
  • [11:03] How to allow yourself to live your liberation and be nourished, even within the systems that we live in 
  • [15:45] Why feeling ‘enough’ is one of the most abundant feelings in the world 
  • [20:38] What distinguishes hoping from wishing
  • [23:50] The connection between curiosity, surprise, and satisfaction 
  • [28:57] Limitations on how boys and girls are socialized relationally 
  • [38:36] The themes and takeaways from “Party of One”
  • [44:24] What it looks like to be in a primary relationship to yourself 
  • [51:37] Why does the goal of any relationship need to be lifelong companionship or marriage?
  • [54:16] Advice for people who have a hard time making decisions from a place of self love or self preservation 

 

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Nov 7, 2022

This week, I invited Charlotte Ruth Wilson, a multi-passionate creative and embodiment coach, for a deep and thought-provoking conversation on the distinction between the business of coaching vs. the skills of coaching, the polarity dynamics of feminine and masculine energies, and the role vulnerability & creativity play in our relationships and businesses. 

We dive into abusive relationships, whether we label ourselves feminists or not, and a conversation around vulnerability (and its effect on your mental and emotional health). 

Ready to drop into your full expression and feel inspired? You don’t want to miss this powerful conversation with Charlotte!

In episode 406 of the Embodied Podcast we discuss:

  • [8:30] Charlotte’s thoughts on being a Reflective Practitioner and how we can teach ourselves by reflecting
  • [10:15] The powerful ways she is creating space for self-expression on social media
  • [12:52] The business of coaching vs. the skills of coaching - and how to make this distinction!
  • [16:49] Charlotte’s story of being in an abusive relationship and being diagnosed with MS
  • [20:05] Polarity dynamics and an in-depth discussion on masculine and feminine dynamics
  • [22:26] Vulnerability as a form of feminine energy (and the harm this can cause)
  • [29:28] Feminism, compassion and empathy for men, and the dangers of some of the feminine/masculine coaching in our space
  • [38:16] Examining the energy behind your messaging 
  • [44:55] Tapping into creativity and how Charlotte started painting again after not being able to walk

 

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Oct 31, 2022

How can we let sacredness be the medicine for so much that ails us? In life, love, work, and all our relationships?

Today we’re diving into sacredness, relational healing, how both can really influence collective and systemic shifts in the world. 

Are your relationships deeply nourishing? Do they feel supportive and fulfilling? Or are you finding yourself drained from dealing with bad behavior, emotional immaturity, or unhealed trauma?

This week, I want to invite you into some deeper thinking & awareness around how you engage with people.

Personally, I’ve had to heal and grow a lot in this area with - 

  • Creating better boundaries that honor my relationships and myself
  • Building better communication with the people in my life
  • Lowering my tolerance for bad behavior while ALSO giving people the opportunity to repair poor behaviors
  • And, allowing myself to bring sacredness into everything I do

Ultimately, creating reciprocal, nourishing & supportive relationships is about honoring the inherent sacredness in all of us and honoring the different ways we each love. 

Join me for this deeper conversation around how you’re engaging with the people in your life and the healing that can be found in honoring and embracing the sacredness of ALL life. 

In episode 405 of the Embodied Podcast we discuss:

  • [9:33] Healing from codependency & unearned benefits of the doubt
  • [11:25] Saying NO to bad behavior, emotional immaturity & unhealed trauma responses 
  • [14:08] Discerning what is and is NOT your business and eliminating distractions so you can expand your capacity for the things that are in alignment for YOU
  • [17:17] How to tell if your exchanges are generative, regenerative, or reciprocal - and why this matters
  • [20:25] Why you should give the MOST of your energy to THIS kind of relationship
  • [27:50] Embracing sacredness as a way of healing ANYTHING - individually, collectively, or systematically

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Oct 24, 2022

We can feel the divide in the world - on political ideology, public health, and the environment (to name a few!)

Is there a way to learn to live together, to resolve the conflict, and to restore relationships?

My friend Kerra Bolton is an outstanding journalist & author who has worked as a freelance writer for CNN and is a winner of the NY Times Award for Outstanding Journalism.

This week, I invited Kerra to discuss the impact of building community through restorative practices.

We are diving into her take on how to build restorative communities and her journey to writing her book. She shares some tips on how to work through violations or ruptures within a community, some powerful learning and what the process of a true restorative practice looks like. 

You don’t want to miss her refreshing take on the way politics is evolving and playing a role in our culture, and how we can minimize divides through these restorative practices. 

You know how much we love talking about growth and change on this show - come learn something with me, she has a lot to share!

 

Listen to episode 404 now!

In episode 404 of the Embodied Podcast we discuss:

  • (3:00) Kerra’s origin story, and how she identifies with Christianity
  • (13:25) Meeting a crazy man who ended up being a visionary (and what he taught her about societal needs)
  • (23:15) What a true restorative practice can look like (some scripted questions to shape the conversation and why there is a need for a facilitator)
  • (35:20) Untangling vaccines, mask mandates, and the political tug-of-war over public health issues 
  • (45:14) Politics in relationships - values vs. solutions

 

For full show notes and links to all the resources and books mentioned in this episode, go to https://untameyourself.com/podcasts/404

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Or slide into Kerra’s DMs on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kerrabolton/

Oct 17, 2022

When it comes to the philosophy of non-monogamy, there can be a lot of questions: Is it polyamory or an open relationship? Do we have to tell each other about other partners? Is it a relationship or just sex? Today’s episode is all about intimacy and non-monogamy and how people connect and relate to each other in that world, with lots of nuggets that apply to ALL relationships, whether monogamous or not. In today’s episode, I’m breaking this all down with Marcia Baczynski (aka Marcia B.) 

Do you geek out on consent, communication, intimacy, how we relate to each other and connect, and why we engage in romantic and sexual relationships in the first place? You’re not going to want to miss this episode!

In episode 403 of the Embodied Podcast we discuss:

  • (5:48) The difference between non-monogamy and polyamory
  • (10:28) Important and relevant things to communicate with your partner(s), particularly when you’re in a non-monogamous relationship (and why the complexity of communication grows exponentially—not linearly—in non-monogamous relationships)
  • (12:50) Ethical non-monogamy vs consensual non-monogamy: what’s the difference and do they mean the same thing? (And Marcia’s preferred term here) How do you determine if one non-monogamous relationship is ethical or not?
  • (32:17) Our best tips for living the lifestyle that works the best for YOU (and one really important thing to keep in mind when navigating non-monogamy)
  • (44:08) TWO things that are so important to pay attention to when it comes to your relationships and what to hone in on so that you can get your desires met more often

Slide into my DMs on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elizabethdialto/ 

Or slide into Marcia’s DMs on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/askmarciab/) or Twitter (https://twitter.com/askmarciab)

Links:

Books mentioned in this episode:

  • The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, & Other Adventures by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton
  • Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica Fern
  • Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships by Tristan Taormino
  • Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century by Barbara Carrellas
  • The Multi-Orgasmic Couple: Sexual Secrets Every Couple Should Know by Mantak Chia, Maneewan Chia, Douglas Abrams, and Rachel Carlton Abrams
  • Cuffed, Tied, and Satisfied: A Kinky Guide to the Best Sex Ever by JAIYA
  • The Art of Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin D.C.
Oct 10, 2022

Hustle culture has too many people completely burnt out these days. Thinking that you have to constantly be “on” is doing a disservice to your mental, emotional, and physical health—and to your business. 

There’s a difference between being “on” all the time and being ready. There’s a difference between hustling and being intentional.

When you are ready, when you stay ready, you can own your skills and step into your expertise.

In this episode, I’m chatting with my friend Trudi Lebrón about all things business. We’re deep diving into how to find joy in just being, the power of coaching and embodiment work, and the nuances of capitalism. It’s a conversation about making a true and lasting impact.

We also talk about her new book, The Antiracist Business Book, and why she chose to focus on business and the coaching industry. She also shares about her new professional development program, The Art and Science of Coaching.

The topics in this episode couldn’t be more relevant to where we are as a society, and I hope you’ll be able to apply some of these concepts and ideas to the growth of your own life and business (if you have one!).

In episode 402 of the Embodied Podcast we discuss:

  • [03:15] How Trudi is finding the joy in just being and spending time with friends and family
  • [06:36] How two people’s interpretations of encouragement can be very different
  • [11:22] Trudi’s experience meeting Fatman Scoop and getting valuable business and sales advice
  • [20:25] Being ready for opportunities that come your way
  • [23:54] Why Trudi chose business and the coaching industry for the angle of her antiracist book
  • [33:38] How the recent Patagonia sale embodies the concept of Just Commerce
  • [40:50] Trudi’s belief in the power of coaching and business vs. coaching skills
  • [46:03] Why Trudi created her new professional development program, The Art and Science of Coaching
  • [50:33] How embodiment work can you help you both professionally and personally

For full show notes and resources, head to https://untameyourself.com/podcasts/402

If you’re feeling it, subscribe to the show, and leave us a review wherever you listen from. You can also keep up with show updates and community discussion on Instagram here.

Oct 3, 2022

Christopher Rivas is a multi-talented, multi-dimensional writer, speaker, and storyteller to name just a few of his skills. He’s the author of the soon-to-be published book Brown Enough and creator of the Rubirosa podcast. His work encourages us to ask deeper questions about our culture, our histories, and our relationships to the people in our lives.

Today, he’s the first man I’ve had on the Embodied podcast in two years. Christopher and I talk about how we both relate to our Brownness, how whiteness and capitalism have, intentionally or not, separated us from aspects of our cultural heritage, and how storytelling can connect us with pieces of our history we feel removed from.

Christopher shares story after story with us in this episode, from humorous anecdotes about a ridiculously placed shower to heartfelt recollections of how his work allowed his father to reflect on his own assimilation into white culture. 

I hope this episode encourages you to keep digging into your own healing and your ancestral history, to keep reaching out with empathy and understanding to those around you, and to learn to build your own stories that can connect you with your own individual culture and your inner self.

In episode 401 we discuss:

[01:19] An introduction to Christopher and his work on storytelling


[08:43] How Christopher’s dating life helped him to reevaluate what he’d been taught about whiteness, beauty, and culture


[13:02] Defining “body of culture” and how it affects Brown people


[17:31] How Christopher’s father and his assimilation into white culture influenced Christopher’s work


[21:22] The healing effect that Christopher’s storytelling work has had on his father and his ability to connect to his original culture


[27:38] The craziest story about LA and inappropriately installed showers from Christopher’s book 


[33:32] How learning a new language can be a deeply humbling and empathic experience


[40:41] How Christopher views climate and infrastructure reform as an opportunity to express empathy and care for our neighbors


[44:15] How Christopher discovered the real James Bond (he was Dominican) and why he became so determined to share this story with the rest of world


[51:39] Why stories like Rubirosa offer everyone, regardless of their culture, an opportunity to challenge their heroes and ask better questions about their history


[59:33] Why accepting your multidimensionality and rejecting the “boxes” society places us in can open you up to new realities

For full show notes and resources, head to https://untameyourself.com/podcasts/401

If you’re feeling it, subscribe to the show, and leave us a review wherever you listen from. You can also keep up with show updates and community discussion on Instagram here.

Sep 26, 2022

This week we’re celebrating Episode 400 of the Embodied Podcast! I can’t tell you all how much I appreciate your time, your love and your community over these last 400 episodes. It’s been a labor of love, joy, and what I call holy consistency over the years.

On my 39th birthday, inside the Wild Soul Sacred body Community, many of our members shared what the community and the podcast have taught them about life, spirituality, self-love, and coming home to themselves. It meant so much to me, not just because of the out-pouring of love, but also because it captures so clearly what I want this space to be: a healing, grounded, no-bullshit community where we can find and explore our true selves, cultivate more personal relationships with the divine, and learn to appreciate our bodies for a million reasons aside from how they look.

While there’s a sea of shallow “spiritual influencers” selling cookie-cutter ideal lifestyles you could be listening to, I’m so grateful you’re here, and that you’re also about collective healing, joy, and liberation.

In this upcoming season, I’ll be exploring joy and the way that joy is instrumental in our continued liberation. I want to remind you to keep reaching out for joy, to keep searching for the things that bring you deep and encompassing joy, and to practice the holy consistency that helps to feel joy and create a full, beautiful life for yourself. 

 Looking forward to our next 400 episodes!

In episode 400 we discuss:

  • [01:23] Your reminder to be comfortable and liberate yourself from the restraints of “professionalism” placed on you by others
  • [04:47] My birthday experience and what your words and notes meant to me
  • [05:51] How anyone with a relationship to the Divine can be a mystic
  • [07:19] Why I talk about God and invite my community to have their own spiritual, mystical experiences
  • [08:23] Why I want you to take what you need from this space, leave what doesn’t work for you, and be the most YOU that you can be
  • [12:14] How to join our welcoming, no-bullshit, spiritual community
  • [13:35] Why we’ll be exploring joy in this new season of the podcast
  • [16:04] How joy can help us create a reality to crowd out the “shitty stuff” trying to force its way into our lives
  • [17:26] How holy consistency creates an energetic foundation for our lives

For full show notes and resources, head to https://untameyourself.com/podcasts/400

 

About the EMBODIED Podcast with Elizabeth DiAlto 

Since 2013 I’ve been developing a body of work that helps women embody self love, healing and wholeness. We do this by focusing on the four levels of consciousness - physical, mental, emotional and spiritual.

In practical terms this looks like exploring tools and practices to help you  tune into the deep wisdom of the body and the knowing of the heart, which I believe are gateways to our souls. Then we cultivate a new relationship with our minds that allows the mind to serve this wisdom and knowing and soul connection, rather than override it, which is what many of us were taught.

If you’ve been doing self help or spiritual development work for a while, these are the types of foundational things that often people overlook in pursuit of fancier concepts that often aren’t practical or sustainable. Here, we will focus on building these strong foundations so you can honestly and thoroughly embody self love. If you’re feeling it, subscribe to the show, and leave us a review wherever you listen from. You can also keep up with show updates and community discussion on Instagram here.

Sep 19, 2022

After spending most of my life exploring my sexuality through the lens of monogamy, I discovered a surprising truth about myself: I don’t actually want one romantic partner. This revelation led me to a new way of looking at my relationships and opened the door for me to finally explore non-monogamy.

I spent the last several months, which I dubbed my Sacred Slut Summer, intentionally exploring non-monogamy and how my intimate, romantic relationships can be sacred and fulfilling without being exclusive.

Choosing to explore love and intimacy through open relationships is a culmination of all my previous romantic experiences, and while some of those were better than others, each experience led me on this path to accepting the kind of love I find so much more satisfying - at least for now!

It’s also offered me a new opportunity to explore the kind of transparency and discernment that non-monogamy requires, and allowed me to lean into my interactions with the Divine and my self-love framework as I accept this new revelation in my romantic life.

I’m no expert on non-monogamy, but I hope you’ll find insights that you can take from my experiences and filter them into your own life and relationships, whether they are open, exclusive, or something else entirely.

In episode 399 of the Embodied Podcast we discuss:

  • [06:05] My first experience with my sexuality
  • [08:25] How I’ve learned to appreciate all the lessons I’ve gained from my past intimate relationships
  • [11:49] The differences between my conscious hoe phase and the more reckless promiscuity of my teens and twenties
  • [13:40] How taking a break from dating taught me about experiencing intimacy and pleasure in a more sacred way
  • [16:55] How I came to the revelation that I really didn’t want a partner
  • [19:37] The sacred prostitute and my inspiration for my Sacred Slut Summer
  • [26:01] Discovering the relational “nutrients” that I could only receive through intimate, romantic relationships
  • [28:53] Redefining my views on non-monogamy
  • [34:01] Why my relationship with my constellation of companions is so fulfilling right now
  • [37:13] How this exploration fits into my self-love framework
  • [40:48] The absolute, wildest story from my Sacred Slut Summer and the opportunity it offered to practice discernment 
  • [43:56] How I offered opportunity to heal and repair the transparency and openness in this relationship
  • [47:29]  Why I’m still not comfortable offering specific advice on this topic

For full show notes and resources, head to https://untameyourself.com/podcasts/399

 

About the EMBODIED Podcast with Elizabeth DiAlto 

Since 2013 I’ve been developing a body of work that helps women embody self love, healing and wholeness. We do this by focusing on the four levels of consciousness - physical, mental, emotional and spiritual.

In practical terms this looks like exploring tools and practices to help you  tune into the deep wisdom of the body and the knowing of the heart, which I believe are gateways to our souls. Then we cultivate a new relationship with our minds that allows the mind to serve this wisdom and knowing and soul connection, rather than override it, which is what many of us were taught.

If you’ve been doing self help or spiritual development work for a while, these are the types of foundational things that often people overlook in pursuit of fancier concepts that often aren’t practical or sustainable. Here, we will focus on building these strong foundations so you can honestly and thoroughly embody self love. If you’re feeling it, subscribe to the show, and leave us a review wherever you listen from. You can also keep up with show updates and community discussion on Instagram here.

Sep 12, 2022

It’s a season of beginnings: a new season of the podcast, a new year of living (I’ll be 39 in a few days), a new way of looking at the intimate relationships in my life, and more. 

As I move into this new season, I want to take a moment to reflect back on my 39 years of life and some of the most important lessons I’ve learned along the way. 

In this episode, I’m letting myself flow and bringing you insights as I feel them. It’s an exploration of personal evolution and self-discovery. 

I’m diving into self-love, emotional intelligence, the sacred, humility, relationships, love, and letting these lessons flow through intuitively.

All of these little lessons have led me toward liberation and healing. They’ve allowed me to architect and embrace the peaceful, joyful life that I have. 

And while every lesson might not be immediately relevant to you, I hope you’ll be able to filter each one through your own unique lens and your own intuition to find the bits of truth that resonate with you. 

In episode 398 of the Embodied Podcast we discuss:

  • [01:03] Reflections as I enter my 39th year
  • [04:58] How letting go of perfectionism is an act of self-love
  • [09:30] Discovering your relationship with yourself and developing your inner loving voice
  • [15:33] How embracing humility lets us release self-importance
  • [20:01] How I’m rethinking my intimate relationships
  • [25:20] Self-acceptance and not getting stuck on the “healing hamster wheel”
  • [30:03] The difference between judgment and discernment
  • [31:21] How the soul is the bridge to the Divine
  • [34:15] Why I don’t believe in being “single”
  • [37:42] The difference between compassion and tolerance
  • [40:01] How curiosity allows to stay open for growth and learning
  • [44:08] How shifting our context can expand our options 
  • [48:05] Finding liberation in whatever context you need
  • [51:57] Don’t be afraid of shit
  • [54:43] Holding on to your integrity and telling the truth as your grow and change
  • [55:46] Responding in love to yourself and others

For full show notes and resources, head to https://untameyourself.com/podcasts/398

 

About the EMBODIED Podcast with Elizabeth DiAlto 

Since 2013 I’ve been developing a body of work that helps women embody self love, healing and wholeness. We do this by focusing on the four levels of consciousness - physical, mental, emotional and spiritual.

In practical terms this looks like exploring tools and practices to help you  tune into the deep wisdom of the body and the knowing of the heart, which I believe are gateways to our souls. Then we cultivate a new relationship with our minds that allows the mind to serve this wisdom and knowing and soul connection, rather than override it, which is what many of us were taught.

If you’ve been doing self help or spiritual development work for a while, these are the types of foundational things that often people overlook in pursuit of fancier concepts that often aren’t practical or sustainable. Here, we will focus on building these strong foundations so you can honestly and thoroughly embody self love. If you’re feeling it, subscribe to the show, and leave us a review wherever you listen from. You can also keep up with show updates and community discussion on Instagram here.

Jul 18, 2022

Mary Magdalene has given me so much  and in celebration of Mary Magdalene Feast Day this July 22nd I want to give something to you. 

In Episode 397 of The Embodied Podcast I show you how I engage with Mary Magdalene, who to me represents immense compassion and unconditional love. 

This world is filled with people who are suffering and sometimes I feel like there is a misconception around unconditional love. 

Unconditional love does NOT look like being a punching bag; you do NOT have to sacrifice yourself to manage the feelings of others who are in a worse place than you. 

From Mary Magdalene I’ve learned what true unconditional love and compassion actually look like, what it means to have heaven on earth, how to be in my body, how to get out of my head and let my soul take up more space. From today’s episode I hope you learn that you too can have the courage to choose yourself; unconditional love takes strength and your strength can help bring healing to the collective. 

P.s. This is the last episode of The Embodied Podcast before my summer break. I hope you have a wonderful summer and I’ll be back on September 12th with new episodes. 

In episode 397 of the Embodied Podcast we discuss:

  • [1:10] How Summer break started at The Embodied Podcast
  • [2:25] How Summer break is helping Elizabeth unhook from capitalism and continue her decolonization work and liberation
  • [3:11] What is Mary Magdalene’s Feast Day 
  • [5:20] How Elizabeth engages with Mary Magdalene
  • [6:53] How Elizabeth Celebrates Mary Magdalene’s Feast Day in the business every year
  • [6:53] Special workshop on July 27th with Terri Cole. Learn more at untameyourself.com/terri
  • [8:48] $1000 off The Sacred Embodiment Specialist Training when you register between July 18th-July 22nd. Learn more at untameyourself.com/ses
  • [11:44] Divine timing - knowing when something isn’t fully right/ready
  • [12:36] One of Elizabeth’s favorite things about Mary Magdalene
  • [12:53] Why there is so much suffering in the world 
  • [15:80] Common misconception about unconditional love
  • [17:03] What unconditional love is not
  • [18:04] Mary Magdalene’s energy 
  • [18:55] The prayer Elizabeth wrote after a visit with Mary Magdalene
  • [22:56] A hallmark sign of codependency
  • [23:35] Books on Mary Magdalene that Elizabeth recommends

For full show notes and resources, head to https://untameyourself.com/podcasts/397

About the EMBODIED Podcast with Elizabeth DiAlto 

If you’re feeling it, subscribe to the show, and leave us a review wherever you listen from. You can also keep up with show updates and community discussion on Instagram here.

Jul 11, 2022

Dr. Katherine Lawson is  a Mind Body Medicine practitioner who is deeply interested in therapies that stimulate one's capacity for self-knowledge and self-healing through self-care. She focuses on the interactions between the brain, mind, body, and personality, and the powerful ways in which mental, social, spiritual, and behavioral factors affect health and happiness.

Dr. Katherine has been looking at dreamwork, mysticism and psychedelic experiences for almost two decades as a way to help people experience whatever healing and growth is available to them. 

Now her biggest work revolves around helping people prepare for psychedelic experiences and in training them how to integrate those experiences into their lives (post the properly guided psychedelic event) for true healing from trauma and complex trauma.

In our conversation, Dr. Katherine explains the overlap of dreamwork, psychedelic work and the practice of embodiment. We also got into aging in an empowered way.

The science is that when your body understands something it sends a message to your brain that changes the way that your brain is wired to respond to certain events. With certain psychedelics, administered at the correct dosage, your brain can no longer hold the space for shame and judgment which frees you to more fully embody and understand yourself. 

If you’re ready to learn more about psychedelics as well as what it looks like to age empowered and to let go of hard things, listen to episode 396 now! 

In episode 396 of the Embodied Podcast we discuss:

  • [1:12] How Dr. Katherine communes with God
  • [4:10] Overcoming the fear of death
  • [5:30] Transitioning out of religion and into a broader view of God
  • [9:22] The power of fear in our lives and learning to surrender
  • [12:41] The tension of opposites and the affect the COVID-19 pandemic had on society
  • [14:02] An introduction into Dr. Katherine’s work in dreamwork, mysticism and psychedelics
  • [14:16] Empowered aging - what does it look like and how can it be done
  • [20:12] Properly preparing for psychedelic experiences
  • [21:04] The reasons people are turning to psychedelics for healing
  • [33:50] The different intelligences/natures of psychedelic medicines
  • [37:05] The dual state of consciousness that comes from taking psychedelic medicines
  • [42:34] The benefit of psychedelic therapy over more traditional talk therapy
  • [43:36] Scientific reasons for why psychedelic therapy works when under the proper care
  • [48:32] Three major life events that caused Dr. Katherine to make a major shift in her life
  • [52:16] Putting a dent in grind culture

For full show notes and resources, head to https://untameyourself.com/podcasts/396

About the EMBODIED Podcast with Elizabeth DiAlto 

If you’re feeling it, subscribe to the show, and leave us a review wherever you listen from. You can also keep up with show updates and community discussion on Instagram here.

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