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EP 345: How To Love Yourself More in 2020 Part 2 0

Sep 9, 2020

This is it, ya'll! It's the wrap up episode for the EMBODIED Self Love series.

There were some listener questions about boundaries that I didn't get to last week, I'm answering those in this episode. And aside from that, I want to spend this last episode on self love anchoring in what we've discussed so far and tying it all together.

And I want to leave you with some reminders and a prayer.

There’s no going back after this.

If you’ve listened to the whole series, you’ve been activated towards self love in a direction you can’t slide back from.

You may have better days than others, but there is a higher understanding now, your new standards have been activated, along with your worthiness, acceptance and everything else we discussed here.

You can’t forget what you heard about self respect. It’s in you now.

You’re aware.

You’re willing.

And of course you are capable.

Here is the prayer I would like to cover you in - I pray that from this day forward self love is a new set and return point for you - a new home frequency, even if it’s a little shaky right now… everything that stands tall and strong requires its foundation to be built, and that’s what we’ve done here. You are love in a body. You are worthy of love - from yourself, from life and from others. And you are already loved more than you know. May you feel this, know this and live this… every single day for the rest of your lifetimes. Amen.

In the eighth episode of the EMBODIED Self Love series we discuss:

[5:42] My prayer for you for this day forward
[6:44] A mantra about self love
[8:55] Why you need to develop a practice around self love
[12:27] How self love assists in trauma healing
[17:18] Claiming your part in the revolution
[18:30] How to deal with a rude family member
[25:08] Why boundaries have to be flexible and agile
[32:21] What the next mini series will be centered around

Resources:
Embodied Self Love Mini Course

EP 338: How To Love Yourself More in 2020 Part I

EP 342: Building Self Trust – How To Trust Yourself

EP 344: Boundaries and Self Love – How They Go Hand In Hand

The EMBODIED Living Center

EP 320: The Law Of Attraction Isn’t Real with Shanda Catrice

My YouTube Channel

Get your copy of the Untame Yourself book on Amazon!

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About the EMBODIED Podcast with Elizabeth DiAlto

Since 2013 I’ve been developing a body of work that helps women embody self love, healing and wholeness. We do this by focusing on the four levels of consciousness - physical, mental, emotional and spiritual.

In practical terms this looks like exploring tools and practices to help you tune into the deep wisdom of the body and the knowing of the heart, which I believe are gateways to our souls. Then we cultivate a new relationship with our minds that allows the mind to serve this wisdom and knowing and soul connection, rather than override it, which is what many of us were taught.

The show runs in seasons now and this season we’re focusing on my EMBODIED Self Love Framework.

We’ll be looking at Self Awareness, Self Knowledge, Self Acceptance, Self Trust and Self Respect - with a bonus episode on Boundaries as well.

If you’ve been doing self help or spiritual development work for a while, these are the types of foundational things that often people overlook in pursuit of fancier concepts that often aren’t practical or sustainable. Here, we will focus on building these strong foundations so you can honestly and thoroughly embody self love. If you’re feeling it, subscribe to the show, and leave us a review wherever you listen from. You can also keep up with show updates and community discussion on Instagram here.

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EP 344: Boundaries and Self Love - How They Go Hand In Hand 0

Sep 4, 2020

This is episode 7 in an 8 episode series on Self Love.

This episode is all about boundaries and what it has to do with self love. Specifically, how boundaries are an expression of all the components of my EMBODIED Self Love Framework:

Boundaries are a responsible way of engaging with what you can control in a healthy, useful way.

Boundaries evolve over time, when you first start setting boundaries, they may be more like barries, it’s ok, over time your boundaries will become both rock solid and without you having to be rigid or militant about it.

Above all else boundaries are rooted in kindness, compassion and are meant to give you permission to live a joyful, love-filled life.

Now, I can hype up boundaries all day but we all know, they're challenging. So in today's episode I offer a lot of context and perspective on boundaries.

Here's what I covered:

The importance of having boundaries with yourself
How boundaries are an opportunity to teach people how to treat us
Navigating saying yes when you mean it and no when you mean it (this is especially hard for recovering codependents and people pleasers!)
How to deal with boundary violations and enforcing your boundaries with people who don't respect them
Energetic boundaries

...and more

In the seventh episode of the EMBODIED Self Love series we discuss:

[6:14] How people are really different right now

[7:23] How setting boundaries evolves over time

[10:01] What happens to us when we don’t set boundaries

[14:10] My experience of starting over from scratch on social media

[16:59] Examples of boundaries you could set up for yourself

[19:39] Having boundaries around certain types of people

[25:15] Saying “no” when you mean no and saying “yes” when you mean yes

[30:40] Why you should pay attention to the word “should”

[35:27] How boundaries isn’t about being rigid or policing people all the time

[37:27] What having boundaries will do for you