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Embodied with Elizabeth DiAlto

The EMBODIED Podcast with Elizabeth DiAlto has been a top podcast in women’s self-help and spirituality since its debut in 2015. With over 330 episodes and 3 million downloads and counting, the name and the format may continue to shift and evolve over time, but what will always remain constant is a commitment to truth-telling and exploring the most real and relevant aspects of being fully human and fully divine in a world that is both volatile and miraculous.
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Sep 4, 2020

This is episode 7 in an 8 episode series on Self Love. 

This episode is all about boundaries and what it has to do with self love. Specifically, how boundaries are an expression of all the components of my EMBODIED Self Love Framework:

Boundaries are a responsible way of engaging with what you can control in a healthy, useful way.

Boundaries evolve over time, when you first start setting boundaries, they may be more like barries, it’s ok, over time your boundaries will become both rock solid and without you having to be rigid or militant about it.

Above all else boundaries are rooted in kindness, compassion and are meant to give you permission to live a joyful, love-filled life.

Now, I can hype up boundaries all day but we all know, they're challenging. So in today's episode I offer a lot of context and perspective on boundaries.

Here's what I covered:

  • The importance of having boundaries with yourself
  • How boundaries are an opportunity to teach people how to treat us
  • Navigating saying yes when you mean it and no when you mean it (this is especially hard for recovering codependents and people pleasers!) 
  • How to deal with boundary violations and enforcing your boundaries with people who don't respect them
  • Energetic boundaries

 

...and more

 

In the seventh episode of the EMBODIED Self Love series we discuss:

[6:14] How people are really different right now

[7:23] How setting boundaries evolves over time

[10:01] What happens to us when we don’t set boundaries

[14:10] My experience of starting over from scratch on social media

[16:59] Examples of boundaries you could set up for yourself

[19:39] Having boundaries around certain types of people

[25:15] Saying “no” when you mean no and saying “yes” when you mean yes

[30:40] Why you should pay attention to the word “should”

[35:27] How boundaries isn’t about being rigid or policing people all the time

[37:27] What having boundaries will do for you

[40:25] What energetic boundaries is and why they’re important

 

Resources:
Embodied Self Love Mini Course

EP 288: Advice For The Sex And Love You Crave With Eva Clay

EP 293: Deeper Dating With Ken Page

EP 147: Terri Cole On Real Love Revolution

Dance of Anger, The: A Woman's Guide To Changing The Patterns Of Intimate Relationships 

Energy Hygiene

Energetic Boundaries: How to Stay Protected and Connected in Work, Love, and Life

Get your copy of the Untame Yourself book on Amazon!

 

How was this episode for you?

Was this episode helpful for you today? I’d love to know what quote or lesson touched your soul. Let me know in the comments below OR share the episode on Instagram, tag me your stories @elizabethdialto or send me a DM!

 

About the EMBODIED Podcast with Elizabeth DiAlto 

Since 2013 I’ve been developing a body of work that helps women embody self love, healing and wholeness. We do this by focusing on the four levels of consciousness - physical, mental, emotional and spiritual.

In practical terms this looks like exploring tools and practices to help you  tune into the deep wisdom of the body and the knowing of the heart, which I believe are gateways to our souls. Then we cultivate a new relationship with our minds that allows the mind to serve this wisdom and knowing and soul connection, rather than override it, which is what many of us were taught.

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